Health professionals for Couple Therapy

I am 46 years old and I am a systemic psychologist/psychotherapist. I work mainly with couples and families, but also with individuals. The people who have consulted me say that I am a gentle, calm person and that I am very invested in the interviews. They also say that I am atypical compared to the psychologist colleagues they have known, and that this characteristic is experienced in a very positive way for them. When I presented my family and personal history in my second year of postgraduate training in systemic psychology, one of the things that Ms. E. Goldbeter said to me was, "You sound like you're telling the story of a 70-year-old man, when you're only 36. You have done a lot of things in life...". Indeed, I am 46 years old and I am now a psychologist, a psychotherapist, since two years a lecturer at the University of Liege as an expert in psychology, a photographer and a musician, who puts together his different life experiences to try to make them useful in psychological meetings. I often use metaphor, humor, but also music, photography, and many other things in order to make the suffering situation presented to me as simple, clear, explicit and intelligible as possible for everyone. This collective understanding is often linked to the beginning of the resolution of the problem(s). When couples, families or individuals come to my office, I always explain to them certain points to which I pay particular attention: communication, emotions, family history, the feeling of justice and injustice experienced between people. Focusing on these different points is often a key to solving the problem...

En tant que psychologue clinicienne, j’accompagne les enfants, adolescent·es, adultes, couples (conjugaux et parentaux) et les familles. Mon approche se nourrit des courants TCC et centrée sur la personne. Je m’adapte à la singularité de chaque personne, tout en tenant compte de son environnement familial, social, professionnel, culturel, etc. Je m’engage à me sensibiliser continuellement aux discriminations systémiques et à leurs conséquences sur l’individu.

Les problématiques abordées peuvent notamment être :

• gestion des émotions ;
• difficultés relationnelles, conflits, troubles de l’attachement ;
• conflits de valeurs ;
• question de genre ;
• parentalité, guidance parentale, grossesse ;
• maladies, deuil ;
• séparation, divorce, déménagement ;
• transition de vie ;
• anxiété, stress, burn-out ;
• troubles du comportement ;
• troubles alimentaires ;
• estime de soi ;
• vie affective et sexuelle, polyamour ;
• dépression ;
• malaise diffu, etc.

Je réalise également certains bilans (par ex : psycho-affectifs, attachement). N’hésitez pas à me contacter afin d’échanger sur ce qui est réalisable en fonction de votre demande.

Je reçois actuellement de nouvelles personnes.

Toute séance annulée moins de 24h à l’avance sera due, et je me permettrai de vous recontacter pour obtenir cette rémunération.

Titulaire d’un master en psychologie clinique de l'adulte.

Je me spécialise en psychothérapie systémique.

J'accompagne des adultes, des couples et des familles en proposant des suivis thérapeutiques centrés sur les dynamiques relationnelles et familiales.

Why see a psychologist? Throughout our lives, we are confronted with numerous difficulties that can arise at a personal, relational and/or professional level. It can happen that we feel overwhelmed and powerless in the face of these difficulties, and in such cases it can be beneficial to consult a psychologist. Consulting a psychologist can also be a way of working on yourself and getting to know yourself better. Being accompanied by a professional gives you an outside perspective and helps to identify and work on recurrent patterns in your life. I offer individual consultations in French, Dutch or English. An initial contact will enable us to get to know each other and to define your needs and objectives together. Then, a therapeutic follow-up can be set up to pursue these objectives.

After a few years of practice, I believe that we offer a better quality of listening and presence to those who are at the interaction of our interests and our clinical experience. This is why I prefer to see adolescents and adults with a strong artistic sensibility, but who suffer from depression, anxiety and eating disorders, which are all invisible vulnerability factors; and I am happy to listen to people who have experienced a history of violence, which impacts their emotional and professional choices as well as their self-esteem.

Certified contextual psycho and relationship therapist. I am Kristof Decubber, husband and father of two daughters. In my practice for family and relationship therapy, the belief that everyone carries something good with them is paramount. From a non-judgmental attitude, I want to create a safe atmosphere to be able to say what we might want to say. Sometimes it happens to us that we get stuck and no longer know which path to choose. Then it can be helpful to dare to take steps together with someone, to take paths, to explore what we need in complete freedom. With appropriate care and sufficient attention to your own pace.

C’est vers l’âge de 10 ans que l’idée m’est venue d’aller vers un métier où je me mettrais au service des personnes en difficulté pour les accompagner, les soutenir vers un mieux-être.

L’élan d’aller à la rencontre de l’être humain dans sa diversité ne m’a depuis jamais quitté.

J’ai obtenu un bachelier d’assistante sociale et me suis formée durant 4 années à l’approche systémique aux cotés de Monsieur Mony ELKAIM entre autres.

Forte d’une longue expérience de 17 années à l’aide à la jeunesse, j’ai pu accompagner, soutenir des enfants et leur famille dans différentes épreuves de la vie telles que les deuils, les séparations, les conflits, les violences intrafamiliales, les négligences.

Créer des ponts et des balises autour de l’enfant, de sa famille et de ses différents milieux de vie a été au centre de mes préoccupations (écoles, institutions, hôpitaux, familles d’accueil,…)

Veillez à ce que chaque membre de la famille trouve sa juste place est une part importante de mon travail.

Je n’aurais pas pu faire cette belle et enrichissante expérience sans des formations continuées tant dans le secteur de l’aide à la jeunesse (questions de maltraitances) que du développement personnel et des différentes approches pour accompagner au mieux les familles.